One way Luke and I are different is in our desire to socialize.
Luke would be perfectly happy to stay home all weekend and relax, while I feel the urge to go out and spend time with friends. Luke has a small group of friends he’s really close to, while I have a larger network of people I try to keep up with.
The problem is, living in a city like Chicago (where half of my hometown migrated to after college) means I have A LOT of friends to hang out with (I know, tough problem, huh!). Most times I love having so many options of things to do and people to see, but occasionally I start feeling stretched too thin.
With busy jobs, relationships, vacations ect its becoming nearly impossible to get all my friends together in one place, which makes it hard to maintain meaningful relationships with EVERYONE.
I’m starting to feel like I’m foregoing strong relationships with my closest friends to be “sort of” friends with a lot of people.
What do you think, is it better to be friends with a lot of people or have a close-knit group of core friends?
How do you keep up with the network of people who are important to you?